A deeply distressing incident has shaken many after a 10-year-old boy, who has already suffered the tragic loss of both his parents, was found attempting to take his own life. The child, who currently lives with his aunt, was discovered by a concerned couple who intervened in time and prevented what could have been a devastating loss.
According to information shared alongside a circulating video, the young boy explained that he felt overwhelmed by how he is treated at home. In his emotional account, he said the pain he experiences daily made him feel unwanted, unheard, and unloved. What makes the incident even more heartbreaking is that the trigger appeared to be something small, yet deeply symbolic of ongoing emotional neglect.
The boy explained that he had wanted to make chips for himself, but his aunt refused, telling him that he was finishing the cooking oil and potatoes. He went on to say that his aunt’s biological children are allowed to prepare the same food without being questioned or scolded. When he does the same, however, he claims he is treated differently and made to feel like a burden.
For a child already carrying the trauma of losing both parents, such experiences can cut deeply. In the video, the boy expressed that he felt ending his life would bring him peace, saying he wanted to join his late mother and father. His words have left many viewers shocked, heartbroken, and angry, raising serious concerns about how vulnerable children are treated within extended family homes.
The incident has sparked widespread conversation about child welfare, emotional abuse, and the silent suffering many children endure behind closed doors. While physical harm is often more visible, emotional neglect and unequal treatment can be just as damaging—especially to a child still trying to process grief and loss.
Many community members have praised the couple who stepped in and saved the child’s life, calling them heroes for acting quickly and showing compassion. Others are calling for social services and child protection authorities to urgently investigate the child’s living conditions to ensure his safety and emotional wellbeing.
Experts warn that children who lose parents at a young age are at a higher risk of depression and suicidal thoughts, particularly if they feel unloved or treated unfairly in their new homes. They stress the importance of consistent care, emotional support, and counseling for orphaned children.
This heartbreaking incident serves as a painful reminder that children’s cries for help are not always loud. Sometimes, they are hidden in small moments, unmet needs, and feelings of exclusion. As a society, many are urging that greater attention be paid to the emotional lives of children, especially those who have already lost so much.
If you or someone you know is struggling or having thoughts of self-harm, please seek help immediately. In South Africa, you can contact **SADAG (South African Depression and Anxiety Group)** at **0800 567 567** or **116**, or reach out to a trusted adult, teacher, or healthcare professional. No child should ever feel that death is the only escape. 
