Musa Mseleku, South Africa’s well-known polygamist and star of *Izingane Zesthembu*, is facing intense criticism after viewers accused him of behaving inappropriately toward his son’s baby mama, Tirelo Kale. What started as a seemingly innocent conversation between a father and his son’s partner has now turned into a full-blown social media controversy, leaving fans questioning Mseleku’s intentions and the ethical boundaries within polygamous families.
The controversial moment unfolded in a recent episode of *Izingane Zesthembu*, when Musa sat down privately with Tirelo to discuss her relationship with Mpumelelo, one of his sons. At first, the tone of the conversation appeared calm and respectful. However, viewers were quick to pick up on what they described as “flirtatious” behavior from Musa, particularly the tone of his voice and subtle mannerisms during the discussion.
The moment that truly ignited backlash came at the end of their conversation, when Musa said to Tirelo, “Leave before people start to assume things.” While it may have seemed like an offhand remark, many interpreted it as suggestive, inappropriate, and even disrespectful — especially given the nature of their relationship.
Outraged viewers wasted no time expressing their discomfort online. One user on X (formerly Twitter), @asanda\_tee, wrote, *“Mseleku flirting with Tirelo was the most ewwwwww moment today,”* echoing the sentiments of dozens of others who found the exchange unsettling.
The incident is especially sensitive because it comes on the heels of Tirelo’s recent demotion within the family hierarchy. Initially considered for the role of Mpumelelo’s first wife, Tirelo was controversially pushed to the position of second wife, leading to whispers and public speculation about her role in the relationship. Some have labelled her a “side chick,” a title she strongly rejects. In a bold clapback, she declared, *“I’m not a side chick. There’s no VIP in relationships,”* gaining sympathy and support from viewers who feel she’s being unfairly marginalized.
The episode has sparked wider conversations around respect, boundaries, and the challenges of modern polygamy. While it’s not unusual for emotions to run high in such complex family setups, many fans feel that Musa — as the father figure and elder — should uphold clear moral boundaries, especially when it comes to his children’s partners.
So far, Musa Mseleku has not responded publicly to the accusations, despite growing calls for him to clarify his statement and behavior. With fans demanding accountability, many are hoping the next episode of *Izingane Zesthembu* will shed more light on the situation.
As tensions rise in the Mseleku household, one thing is clear: this scandal has added another layer of drama to an already emotionally charged reality show, and fans will be watching closely to see what happens next.
