Deanne Carson, an Australian sexuality educator, sparked debate by suggesting that parents ask babies for consent before changing their diapers. Carson believes a “culture of consent” should start at birth, promoting respect for the child’s autonomy. She proposes parents narrate actions, like asking, “Is it okay to change your diaper?” and wait for non-verbal cues, such as eye contact or body language.
Critics, including psychologists and online users, argue that infants are too young to understand consent, calling the idea impractical and unnecessary. Some mock Carson’s suggestion, while others defend her, appreciating the intention to foster respect.
While the concept remains controversial, many agree on the value of being communicative with babies, even if not strictly about consent. Ultimately, it comes down to individual parenting styles and comfort levels.